The relationship between Usher and Rozonda “Chilli” Thomas, once hailed as a match made in R&B and hip-hop heaven, is a story of deep love and eventual heartbreak. In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, Usher reflects on his past romance with Chilli, shedding light on their passionate connection and ultimate separation.
Their love story began in 2001 when Usher, a rising star in the music industry, met Chilli, seven years his senior. Usher, who had admired Chilli since childhood, described her as his “superstar” and expressed his adoration through his music, including the lyrics of “Superstar” on his album “Confessions.” Despite their genuine affection for each other, their relationship faced challenges that ultimately led to their breakup in late 2004.
Usher recalls feeling deeply hurt by the rejection he experienced when he proposed to Chilli, only to be turned down. He admits to struggling with trust and emotional vulnerability in the aftermath, but acknowledges his own shortcomings in the relationship, recognizing that he hurt Chilli as well.
Chilli, in previous interviews, acknowledged the complexities of their relationship, citing the pressure to conform to certain expectations and behaviors. Despite their on-and-off dynamic following the breakup, Usher emphasizes that he reached a point where he had to prioritize his own emotional well-being and move forward.
Today, both Usher and Chilli have found happiness in new relationships. Chilli is dating actor Matthew Lawrence, while Usher recently surprised fans with a wedding to longtime girlfriend Jenn Goicoechea. Reflecting on their past, Usher expresses gratitude for the friendship and mutual respect they now share, emphasizing that any lingering pain has been replaced by a sense of lightness and camaraderie.
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