Golden Bachelorette Drama: Contestant’s Dark Past Exposed Amidst Romance
The Golden Bachelorette has just started its season, but behind-the-scenes drama is already brewing. One contestant, Gil Ramirez, a 60-year-old educator from Southern California, is making headlines—not for his romantic moves, but for his troubling past.
Ramirez, who made an impression on lead Joan Vassos during the first episode by tossing a baseball and charming her with a pun, secured a rose early on. However, it has now come to light that Ramirez’s background may not be as rosy as it seemed. Allegedly, an ex-girlfriend filed a temporary restraining order against him just days before the show’s production began.

According to People, the restraining order was filed on June 11, following claims of emotional harassment. The ex-girlfriend, who remained anonymous, accused Ramirez of making repeated unwanted contact with her and her loved ones. She further claimed that he made 25 attempts to reach her through calls, texts, and videos over a two-week span. Despite living an hour apart, Ramirez reportedly showed up in places she frequented, escalating the situation.
Court documents revealed that a hearing had been scheduled for July 2 but was postponed to July 24. The case was ultimately dismissed without prejudice due to “lack of prosecution for lack of service,” meaning it could potentially be reopened.
Insiders from The Golden Bachelorette production team explained that the allegations came to light after the show’s vetting process had already been completed. While Ramirez is unlikely to be removed from the show entirely, his screen time will be limited in upcoming episodes. Sources say his role will be “edited and limited” as the season progresses.

This isn’t the first time the Bachelor franchise has faced controversy over contestants’ pasts. Ramirez’s case echoes similar incidents, such as the recent season of The Bachelorette, where contestant Devin Strader’s criminal history, including a restraining order, resurfaced after he broke lead Jenn Tran’s heart.
Despite the ongoing drama, The Golden Bachelorette continues to air every Wednesday on ABC, with episodes available on Hulu the following day. Fans of the show will be watching closely to see how Ramirez’s story unfolds—and whether his dark past will impact his chances of finding love with Joan.
With romance and revelations clashing, this season of The Golden Bachelorette promises to be one for the books.